Little Reminder for Myself

1. Always realize it’s possible, instead of telling yourself why you can’t.
2. Become aware of your self-talk.
3. Squash negative thoughts like a bug, and Replace them with positive thoughts.
4. Love and Appreciate what you have already, Be grateful for your life, your gifts, and other people.
5. Don’t compare yourself to others, But be inspired by them.
6. Accept Criticism with grace, But ignore the naysayers.
7. See bad things as a blessing in disguise, and See failure as a stepping stone to success.
8. Surround yourself by those who are positive.
9. Complain less, smile more. :)
10. Image that you’re already positive, Then become that person in your next act.

Three Secrets to Happiness

We all know that money can’t buy happiness … but many times we act as if we’d be happier with a bit more money. We are conditioned to want to be rich (when we know the rich aren’t happy either); we are trained to want the latest gadget or style that television tells us to want; we want to earn more money because then we’ll have the good life.

But none of that will bring us happiness. No matter how much we earn, no matter how much we have in the bank, no matter how nice our clothing or cars or toys, none of it will make us happier. And the sad thing is that it could take us decades of pursuing wealth and luxury items before we realize this.

So what will bring us happiness? Luckily, it’s three things that don’t cost a thing. These three things have been proven by research — surveys of hundreds of thousands of people about what they have, what their lives are like, and how happy they are.

Here they are, the Three Secrets to Happiness:

1. Good relationships. We have a human need to be close, to be intimate, with other human beings. Having good, supportive friendships, a strong marriage or close and loving relationships with our family members will make us much more likely to be happy. Action steps: Take time, today, to spend time with your loved ones, to tell them what they mean to you, to listen to them, and develop your relationship with them.
2. Positive thinking. I’m obviously a big proponent of positive thinking as the best way to achieve your goals, but it turns out that it can lead to happiness too. Optimism and self-esteem are some of the best indicators of people who lead happy lives. Happy people feel empowered, in control of their lives, and have a positive outlook on life. Action steps: Make positive thinking a habit. In fact, this should be one of the first habits you develop. Get into the habit of squashing all negative thoughts and replacing them with positive ones. Instead of “I can’t” think “I can”. It may sound corny, but it has worked for me, every time.
3. Flow. This is a popular concept on the Internet these days — the state we enter when we are completely focused on the work or task before us. We are so immersed in our task that we lose track of time. Having work and leisure that gets you in this state of flow will almost undoubtedly lead to happiness. People find greatest enjoyment not when they’re passively mindless, but when they’re absorbed in a mindful challenge. Action steps: Find work that you’re passionate about. Seriously — this is an extremely important step. Find hobbies that you’re passionate about. Turn off the TV — this is the opposite of flow — and get outside and do something that truly engages you.

This article is taken from http://zenhabits.net which consist plenty of nice article (giving a credit to zenhabits) and i found this one interesting :) Be happy always...This is because Happiness is in your hand.

Audi R8 @ Empire Hotel Brunei

It was a lovely weekend; me and my colleague (as usual nothing to do) had decided an outing to Empire Hotel.

Empire was really a gorgeous hotel. It was decorated with its unique styling of accommodation by surrounded with ocean, lagoon, garden and golf course.

The Room rate was cost from BND 400 (Superior Room) to BND 16,600 (Emperor Suite).

Well, of course we obviously can’t afford the Extreme Emperor Suite at that Hotel. So just afford to view the Display car park next to its Cinema

It is Audi R8.

The Audi R8 is a sports car with a longitudinally mounted mid-engine, and uses Audi's trademark Quattro permanent four wheel drive system.

Audi R8 was equipped with a 4.2 litre V8 engine.

It develops power output of 309 kilowatts (420 PS; 414 bhp) and generates 430 Newton meters (317 ft-lb) of torque.

In particular, it is an all-aluminum 32-valve (four valves per cylinder) petrol engine, utilizing Fuel Stratified Injection (FSI), and has a displacement of 4,163 cubic centimeters.

Audi stated 0-100kmh times only 4.6 second.

Basically, this car really amazes me with its elegant looks.

It cost above BND 200k (No idea on the exact price, but I heard R8 V10 is around 300kBND)

So, for this moment, I just can wash my eyes with these pictures. Have faith, I will bring ‘her’ back~

爱情就如一场赌博

爱情....爱情其实就如一场赌博。。以下有个故事。。是JZ妹妹跟我说的。。

一个女孩，踏入了爱情赌场

她。。手上的筹码不多，所以，女孩必须谨慎选择要入注那一桌

因为有可能入注之后 永远都踏不出来。。

女孩选择了3张赌桌

第1 张 ：女孩买大，它偏偏开小 - 总爱和她唱反调

女孩输了。。 她低头走了

第2 张：女孩总是没有位子占， 因为身边还有许多玩家。。

2号赌桌上，女孩也有赢了一两回合。。可是很快就被取代了

过后。。女孩带着最后的希望来到了第3张赌桌

第3张赌桌什么牌都没有，自傲的独立的站在那里。

女孩徘徊了一下，叹气走了。。

女孩离开了赌场，心情异常的轻松。

她在赌场外边，遇上了赌场老板。

赌场老板问女孩：你怎么输了都那么开心呢

女孩说 ：因为我学会了钱买不到的东西。。

赌桌1 教会了我忍耐

赌桌2 教会了我忍让

赌桌3 教会了我包容

所以我现在可以去寻找幸福了=）

在爱情里，就需要这3种材料。

忍耐，忍让还有包容。

要如何去忍耐，如何去忍让还有包容

你拿心思。。心血。。耐性。。来当赌注。。

你付出的赌注。。就代表你一定会换取同等的幸福吗？

在那短暂赌博期间，只要你尽心，花心思去投入游戏

当赌场关闭的时候，你一定是赢家

爱情 赌的不是心思， 赌的是谁能维持守护真心。。

要带着 你当初进来赌场的心情 去面对每一桌

因为没有一桌是重复的。他们都值得你附上新的希望

我们只要尽力去扮演好我的角色，回报都不要。。

只希望他/她能比我自己更珍惜我自己

这是种追求的无价~

9 Most Annoying Types Of People On Facebook

Here are 9 of the most annoying types of people you will find on Facebook.

Yea...often saw this in FB...they like to post everything they do at FB...so basically u can check what he/she will do all the time...*is really annoying*

Some of people will put their kids, nephew or niece pic...=.=....well its look fine but obviously its weird a little BB will play FB

LOL i no idea about this one...but i think there is people like this...always showing off at FB...

OMG...i hope to take such stupid quiz too....

Hmm...sometime its really annoying when you are being tag without reason...

En...this type of ppl can be call 38gung or 38po....

Sales on FB....can be annoying if its too aggresive

Well, its annoying =.=

LOL...im one of it ...but not for pig warlord...hahaha

Desire of looking a car in Brunei

Recently, I been searching brunei’s car from website. Comparing the price and see which car I could afford. Then I found an interesting car for sale posting from bruneicarzine. i saw a RX-7 sell for BND 24k.From the picture, its third generation RX-7....also known as RX7-FD3S.However, the information provided was insufficient, therefore i unable to identify its Series 6, 7 or 8. If its Type A- Sprint R model, I will consider to purchase it…

I believe most people will hear about the success story of the RX7.but isn’t it worthy to purchase one? The maintenance will be headache, not many engineers are familiar with Rotary Engine. Also, it is turbocharged rotary which was a very complex piece of engineering. i believe the cost for services will be higher compare to other turbo car. It also require more frequent services (what I heard from friend is about 3k once).
Personally, I do not have much knowledge for RX7. However, it is really a collectable and fun piece of legend car to keep. It had been stop production in 2002. So we will not able to purchase a new one.
Lastly, I hope I will found other offer of legend car in Brunei (Especially Supra).

失去了，要伤心吗？

每当一段快乐的情侣走到一个终点。。其中一位说走不下去了。。就会失恋了。。。
失恋了？。。会怎么样？

肯定会。。。〉伤心...眼泪。。心痛。。让人很无奈。。天天想着对方。。沉默。。。。等等。。

不过，要记得。。你不需要伤心，因为失去爱情的是不珍惜你的那位。。

如果你是真心爱过他/她的，就勇敢的离开。。他/她没有勇气和你走下去了，你就放手。。

他/她放弃了你，就是他/她的损失。。所以失恋的不是你，而是他/她，因为他/她失去了真正爱过他/她的人。。

爱上一个不懂得爱你的人。。值得吗？。。记得要快乐哦。。

俗语说：能相恋并不是巧合。。所以如果真的遇上了。。就应该好好珍惜对方。。=)